Setting 2019 Goals: Envisioning My Best Life Yet
Looking Back at 2018
My daughter is my raison d’etre. She makes each day extra special and gives me a sense of purpose.
There has been a sea-change in my relationship with my husband over the last year. All credit to him – for being so patient and learning how to reign in his anger.
My parents, my brother and sister-in-law, as always, were so supportive of me.
Our family is doing good. We have no debt, own a house and two cars. In 2018 too, we continued to be frugal. Our biggest expense was paying our daughter’s tuition – an investment in our daughter’s future. Wish we had taken a family holiday, though.
This is the one area in my life where maximum growth is needed. 2018 was the year where I laid the foundation stone of the kind of work that I want to do. Need to build on this foundation and take my work to the next level.
Health and Fitness
I stopped taking my daily preventive Migraine pill. Both the frequency of my headaches or their intensity haven’t worsened. This was the biggest positive that came out of 2018.
How I Feel at the end of 2018
Worried: I am anxious about my daughter and what life has is store for her. I wonder if we are being good parents, making the right choices and providing her with the opportunities she needs and enabling her to be able to meet the challenges that life brings along.
Confident: That we are doing our best and things will turn out right, for there is that ultimate power who sees everything and know everything.
Loved: I feel loved by my family and grateful to be have them in my life.
Things That Worked In 2018
- I learnt so much more about blogging and the various aspects of it – be it selecting a name or a theme, selecting a host to setting up my blog.
- Developing a system for pinning without using a paid scheduler
- Our family dynamic improved
- I stopped taking daily meds for migraine.
- Keeping track of expenses and developing a budget helped me get a grip of my finances.
Things That Didn’t Work In 2018
- Being inconsistent with my blogging and related social media activities,
- Not having a plan on how to take my blogging to the next level.
- Communication with my husband could do with some improvement.
- Being more efficient with my time.
- No family vacation.
What Fires Me Up?
Reading, good food, music, live events – theatre, dance, concerts, movies and most of all my family.
Visualizing My Golden Years
How do I imagine my life to be when I retire? I see myself healthy and active, surrounded by my grandchildren, my husband and my family, Each day is full of laughter and celebrations. My husband and I enjoy our evenings both with each other or with our friends. Books, music, arts and culture and heritage remain a big part of my life.
My 2019 Vision Board
Now that I have envisioned where I want to be, next is how do I get there. What should I be doing this year to get me one step closer to my ideal life.
This is what I want my 2019 to be filled up with
- Growth – In every front be it work, self, finances, relationships. At the end of 2019 I want to be able to unambiguously identify what I built on in each of these areas.
- Care – of my mind and my body.
- Memories – with family and friends
- Study – My daughter is starting a crucial exam year at her school. Helping her form and stick to good studying techniques is going to be crucial.
- Risk taking – So I am a conservative person. I think of things but hesitate to say them. Girl, it is okay to be wrong. Let that fear not hold you back. You go ahead and do what you think. Take that risk, ok.
- Finish Strong – I tend to start strong, with great enthusiasm. However, somewhere down the line my energy dies. I don’t take things to their logical conclusion. This is where having strong visual board would help.
My word for the year 2019 is
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